HopefulDaughter
Registered User
Hello,
My Mum is in a nursing home with advanced mixed dementia, vascular and Alzheimer’s. She is bed bound and still eating but only weighs 39kg so very frail and living in her own version of reality. When I visited yesterday she didn’t seem herself and now I’m sitting here feeling very anxious and confused.
She was in a deep, deep sleep when I arrived which is unusual and she didn’t stir for half an hour until I then tried to wake her gently by talking to her. When I spoke to her she responded eventually but with her eyes closed and didn’t move. Later on she then woke up when but seemed unable to communicate - even the few words she used to say seem now to be out of reach. The most alarming thing was that she kept dropping into deep sleep/unconsciousness with eyes rolling back into her head, with no warning.
She was also shaking slightly from time to time. When I left she looked at me and seemed to be trying to communicate but seemed unable to speak.
I feel as though she may have had a minor stroke.
I mentioned to nursing team that I was concerned but they didn’t seem worried.
Has anyone seen this before - particularly with the eyes rolling back?
I am worried she is going downhill and this is the beginning of the end.
Can anyone advise or share any similar experiences.
Thank you.
My Mum is in a nursing home with advanced mixed dementia, vascular and Alzheimer’s. She is bed bound and still eating but only weighs 39kg so very frail and living in her own version of reality. When I visited yesterday she didn’t seem herself and now I’m sitting here feeling very anxious and confused.
She was in a deep, deep sleep when I arrived which is unusual and she didn’t stir for half an hour until I then tried to wake her gently by talking to her. When I spoke to her she responded eventually but with her eyes closed and didn’t move. Later on she then woke up when but seemed unable to communicate - even the few words she used to say seem now to be out of reach. The most alarming thing was that she kept dropping into deep sleep/unconsciousness with eyes rolling back into her head, with no warning.
She was also shaking slightly from time to time. When I left she looked at me and seemed to be trying to communicate but seemed unable to speak.
I feel as though she may have had a minor stroke.
I mentioned to nursing team that I was concerned but they didn’t seem worried.
Has anyone seen this before - particularly with the eyes rolling back?
I am worried she is going downhill and this is the beginning of the end.
Can anyone advise or share any similar experiences.
Thank you.