I need to work and I am a teacher. My husband has been having carers visiting for a few months, but it is only now, I am on summer holiday, that I have found out how inadequate this is.
They visit after I have left for about 15 minutes and try to get him up, dressed and washed. They mostly fail. He doesn't know who they are, sometimes does not want to get up, and is not happy with being shouted at. They visit at lunch for 15-20 minutes and I find the sandwiches down the toilet or in a drawer when I get home.
He has been found in the road, sometimes without clothes.
They report back that he is aggressive and difficult; with me is co-operative for important things - meds and dress and sleep. But I can't stay home.
I had a very good neighbour but she now has a job. I had a lodger but she is now working all hours. Social Services seem to think this is OK.
They visit after I have left for about 15 minutes and try to get him up, dressed and washed. They mostly fail. He doesn't know who they are, sometimes does not want to get up, and is not happy with being shouted at. They visit at lunch for 15-20 minutes and I find the sandwiches down the toilet or in a drawer when I get home.
He has been found in the road, sometimes without clothes.
They report back that he is aggressive and difficult; with me is co-operative for important things - meds and dress and sleep. But I can't stay home.
I had a very good neighbour but she now has a job. I had a lodger but she is now working all hours. Social Services seem to think this is OK.