Good evening Saz,
I’m sorry but I have only just come on this thread. My wife has dementia and also has to wear a colostomy bag, so I have a real understanding of what you have been going through. It’s my opinion that these two things together are just about the most challenging combination that could be dreamt up. How you have managed, even with a helpful husband, I cannot imagine.
But one thing is quite clear, you must not allow them to discharge your Mum back to your care. For your own, and your Mum’s, health you must refuse. You have done much more than could have been expected of you. As Owly says, legally they cannot make you. Just refuse to even discuss it with anybody.
I’m sorry but I have only just come on this thread. My wife has dementia and also has to wear a colostomy bag, so I have a real understanding of what you have been going through. It’s my opinion that these two things together are just about the most challenging combination that could be dreamt up. How you have managed, even with a helpful husband, I cannot imagine.
But one thing is quite clear, you must not allow them to discharge your Mum back to your care. For your own, and your Mum’s, health you must refuse. You have done much more than could have been expected of you. As Owly says, legally they cannot make you. Just refuse to even discuss it with anybody.