As the news came out yesterday that lockdown or some form of it could go on till the end of the year or worse, I started wondering if I will ever see my Mum again. The last time I saw her was on 15 March in hospital, having broken her hip. She was hyper agitated, couldn't sleep/rest, and kept trying to climb out of the top of her hospital bed with her eyes tightly closed directly into a hospital wall - NOT the way I would like to remember our last contact!
I'm missing her like mad (though not all the driving to and from, if I'm honest). She was discharged from hospital back into her care home on 16 March (my birthday, not the best one I've ever had!), probably before she was ready, and has been giving the care home staff plenty of trouble and work since then! They are absolutely wonderful in her home, but we did have an indicent (see earlier post) where police have had to be involved as a member of the care team 'assaulted' her (loose term - apparently she was held by the face, but not in a nice way).
She is 85, has been deteriorating since being there for the last 18 months, and the broken hip exacerbated her condition even more. I've seen quite a few residents over the 18 mths go from being quite ok, to having a fall, to being dead, and I worry that if lockdown for the home continues much longer, I may never see her again.
Tbh, this is all about me. Mum is ok, as far as I know. She lives in her own world, and always tells my sister and I of the interesting things she's been doing, usually with my dad who died in October! Selfish, I know, but I would kill for one of my Mum's magic cuddles.
I know I'm not alone. These are very strange times, and we'll get through them one way or another.
I'm missing her like mad (though not all the driving to and from, if I'm honest). She was discharged from hospital back into her care home on 16 March (my birthday, not the best one I've ever had!), probably before she was ready, and has been giving the care home staff plenty of trouble and work since then! They are absolutely wonderful in her home, but we did have an indicent (see earlier post) where police have had to be involved as a member of the care team 'assaulted' her (loose term - apparently she was held by the face, but not in a nice way).
She is 85, has been deteriorating since being there for the last 18 months, and the broken hip exacerbated her condition even more. I've seen quite a few residents over the 18 mths go from being quite ok, to having a fall, to being dead, and I worry that if lockdown for the home continues much longer, I may never see her again.
Tbh, this is all about me. Mum is ok, as far as I know. She lives in her own world, and always tells my sister and I of the interesting things she's been doing, usually with my dad who died in October! Selfish, I know, but I would kill for one of my Mum's magic cuddles.
I know I'm not alone. These are very strange times, and we'll get through them one way or another.