I've been thinking today, why do we do what we do? Why do we sacrifice our lives for someone else? I don't have an answer. I know that whilst I love my OH I resent the fact that dementia has robbed us both of our lives. Why don't I walk away? Love? Duty? Guilt? Am I i worried about what other people will think? I don't know. I stay but I hate the situation I'm in & I often wonder if it makes any difference me being there or would anyone do?