I think many people struggle with knowing the right things to say and do. I received "happy new year" messages, but took them in the way they were sent; in truth my new year is full of unknowns, but then again so is everyone else's. The difference is we have a greater knowledge of how things are likely to be!
I found it very strange when a neighbour of ours sent a Christmas card addressed just to me; R may we'll be in a CH, but he still exists. I know she would be horrified if she knew how I feel Still better than last year, when she included him on the card in brackets with a question mark!!
I don't get upset by such things any more, because I'm the only one to suffer? I try to think that most people just don't know what to say.
I found it very strange when a neighbour of ours sent a Christmas card addressed just to me; R may we'll be in a CH, but he still exists. I know she would be horrified if she knew how I feel Still better than last year, when she included him on the card in brackets with a question mark!!
I don't get upset by such things any more, because I'm the only one to suffer? I try to think that most people just don't know what to say.