I am the full time carer for my wife who is aged 64 and has had the Alzheimer's variant Posterior cortical atrophy for about 9 years. She is still physically fit but recently her mental condition has deteriorated and she spends quite a lot of time living in delusions. Some pleasant but some upsetting.
At the moment our son is able to provide some help but soon this will stop. So I am beginning to think about paying someone to come in to stay with my wife a couple of times a week for 2 or 3 hours each time to give me a break. This will be the first time I have done this and I am not certain what will be best. It seems to me the options are to use a care company to buy in this service or to find a personal assistant who would be able to take this on regularly. I can think of pros and cons for each of these options but I wondered if anyone might have advice that would help me decide.
The savings we have probably means we won't be eligible for financial support.
At the moment our son is able to provide some help but soon this will stop. So I am beginning to think about paying someone to come in to stay with my wife a couple of times a week for 2 or 3 hours each time to give me a break. This will be the first time I have done this and I am not certain what will be best. It seems to me the options are to use a care company to buy in this service or to find a personal assistant who would be able to take this on regularly. I can think of pros and cons for each of these options but I wondered if anyone might have advice that would help me decide.
The savings we have probably means we won't be eligible for financial support.