Hi, I've posted a couple of times and am so grateful for all the comments and support - so I have a question and I thought I'd try my luck on here...
Dad, 80, living alone, dementia diagnosis Jan '17, my sister and I live very close and doing everything we can...
Before his diagnosis Dad had high BP and was on medication. Since diagnosis his BP meds have been increased once. Then at a recent dementia nurse appointment his BP was seriously high so we went to the GP and she prescribed him a new BP tablet to take in addition to his existing 2. He's been taking these new meds for a week. However he is starting to get more affected by various dementia related problems - and yesterday decided to stop taking 2 of his 3 BP tablets because he thinks that's what is making him feel bad - not the dementia. He won't accept he has dementia and that is causing how he is feeling... I understand that's common, along with the inability to reason with him - he had always been stubborn and is adamant he will not take these tablets even if the GP or pharmacist tells him otherwise....
So, who do we turn to to help us coax him/ensure he takes these tablets?
Do we try the GP? Pharmacist? Dementia team at local hospital? A dementia organisation? Adult social services? He's refusing any help but his latest thing at mine for dinner on Sunday was that he just sat there not eating cos he was struggling to process what he had to do to feed himself. My heart breaks at this but he is convinced his next brain scan next week will flag something up, he'll have a brain operation and be 100% better again.
Just a bit clueless who to turn to to help us along this unknown, tragic journey...
Thanks in advance for any advice xxx
Dad, 80, living alone, dementia diagnosis Jan '17, my sister and I live very close and doing everything we can...
Before his diagnosis Dad had high BP and was on medication. Since diagnosis his BP meds have been increased once. Then at a recent dementia nurse appointment his BP was seriously high so we went to the GP and she prescribed him a new BP tablet to take in addition to his existing 2. He's been taking these new meds for a week. However he is starting to get more affected by various dementia related problems - and yesterday decided to stop taking 2 of his 3 BP tablets because he thinks that's what is making him feel bad - not the dementia. He won't accept he has dementia and that is causing how he is feeling... I understand that's common, along with the inability to reason with him - he had always been stubborn and is adamant he will not take these tablets even if the GP or pharmacist tells him otherwise....
So, who do we turn to to help us coax him/ensure he takes these tablets?
Do we try the GP? Pharmacist? Dementia team at local hospital? A dementia organisation? Adult social services? He's refusing any help but his latest thing at mine for dinner on Sunday was that he just sat there not eating cos he was struggling to process what he had to do to feed himself. My heart breaks at this but he is convinced his next brain scan next week will flag something up, he'll have a brain operation and be 100% better again.
Just a bit clueless who to turn to to help us along this unknown, tragic journey...
Thanks in advance for any advice xxx