Morning all,
I apologise first off if this is in another thread - just show me where it is and I'll gladly go there - I couldn't find anything via various searches, however, so, starting my own thread...
My Dad's got a little worse with his dementia recently, so, whereas before you could sit him down with a crossword and a coffee and people cheerfully came and went in and out of the room, he is not coping well with people either leaving the room or people coming back in say, 60 seconds later.
He lives with my Mum, she has said recently that he'll come find her after 30 seconds or so, even if she's just popped out to the kitchen. I noticed it myself when the came down to stay with us the other day.
This behaviour is mixed in with the fact that apparently he's getting confused with who is in the house and who isn't. I believe he's not following that a) Mum gets off sofa and b) goes to kitchen then c) comes back a minute later and sits back down. He is asking my Mum 'where's the person who was just sat there gone?'
She's going to get his meds looked at, but I wondered if anyone has any experience of this and if so, any practical advice how to make this easier? Diaries of who is here and who isn't don't really work, he struggles to read handwriting and then just reads the note aloud every 30 seconds...
Cheers for any advice, thoughts, experience... Simon
I apologise first off if this is in another thread - just show me where it is and I'll gladly go there - I couldn't find anything via various searches, however, so, starting my own thread...
My Dad's got a little worse with his dementia recently, so, whereas before you could sit him down with a crossword and a coffee and people cheerfully came and went in and out of the room, he is not coping well with people either leaving the room or people coming back in say, 60 seconds later.
He lives with my Mum, she has said recently that he'll come find her after 30 seconds or so, even if she's just popped out to the kitchen. I noticed it myself when the came down to stay with us the other day.
This behaviour is mixed in with the fact that apparently he's getting confused with who is in the house and who isn't. I believe he's not following that a) Mum gets off sofa and b) goes to kitchen then c) comes back a minute later and sits back down. He is asking my Mum 'where's the person who was just sat there gone?'
She's going to get his meds looked at, but I wondered if anyone has any experience of this and if so, any practical advice how to make this easier? Diaries of who is here and who isn't don't really work, he struggles to read handwriting and then just reads the note aloud every 30 seconds...
Cheers for any advice, thoughts, experience... Simon