Hi,
I live in Spain and my Mum lives in Norfolk with my step dad. She's had Alzheimer's for about 4 years that we know of. My sister lives in the USA and we both visit my Mum at different times of the year. As times gone on we have introduced home help to assist with her personal care and help prepare meals. This care has been increased as the disease has progressed. My step dad is older than my Mum and apart from being very deaf, he struggles to deal with the challenges of living with / caring for someone with Dementia.
My Mum fell at home 2 days ago and is currently in hospital waiting for a hip replacement. This is her third fracture in 2 years, two of which have happened at home. We don't know much about the home falls because she was not with anyone each time they happened. She's not able to remember what happened in either of the incidents.
When she has had her hip replacement she will go back to living with my step dad at home. My sister and I both know that the care we have in place needs to be altered, we both want to be sure that my Mum is as safe and well looked after as possible, but we're not sure how best to proceed.
Is there any proffesional advice available to assess what's best for my Mum now? Is there someone in the NHS who can help? I don't know who to seek help from. We know things can't just go back to being how they were before this most recent fall. We don't want to make the wrong decisions by making changes to her care that are not in her best interest.
If anyone knows who I can talk to I would be extremely grateful.
Thankyou
I live in Spain and my Mum lives in Norfolk with my step dad. She's had Alzheimer's for about 4 years that we know of. My sister lives in the USA and we both visit my Mum at different times of the year. As times gone on we have introduced home help to assist with her personal care and help prepare meals. This care has been increased as the disease has progressed. My step dad is older than my Mum and apart from being very deaf, he struggles to deal with the challenges of living with / caring for someone with Dementia.
My Mum fell at home 2 days ago and is currently in hospital waiting for a hip replacement. This is her third fracture in 2 years, two of which have happened at home. We don't know much about the home falls because she was not with anyone each time they happened. She's not able to remember what happened in either of the incidents.
When she has had her hip replacement she will go back to living with my step dad at home. My sister and I both know that the care we have in place needs to be altered, we both want to be sure that my Mum is as safe and well looked after as possible, but we're not sure how best to proceed.
Is there any proffesional advice available to assess what's best for my Mum now? Is there someone in the NHS who can help? I don't know who to seek help from. We know things can't just go back to being how they were before this most recent fall. We don't want to make the wrong decisions by making changes to her care that are not in her best interest.
If anyone knows who I can talk to I would be extremely grateful.
Thankyou