No it doesn't, and anyway, what they were, whether nice or nasty - that is irrelevant now. We can only take them as we see them.Caring I would think involves knowing the person
Do I detect a hint of sarcasm there Nat? It's the first really daft thing you have said on TP anyhow. [hope that doesn't offend ]Obviously you Brucie are a saint
No, I am in no way a saint, but perhaps I am just lucky in the home that Jan is in, perhaps the people there are 'better'... I don't really think so. I simply treat the other residents as I hope that others will treat Jan, with care. It doesn't take a lot of effort, and lest people think I have had an easier road than most, that is probably the opposite of the case.
Not my place, Nat. We all do what we can with what we can and live with that.Ok now Brucie its your turn to tell me why in actual fact, its good for me to have to do all this??
I was probably at your point of view 4-5 years ago. Times and things change. They have to.