Hi,
Just looking for a little advice due to this situation happening to a friend recently and if the same happened in our circumstances I really wouldn’t know what to do.
My parents are both in their late 70s. Nearly 4 years ago my mum was diagnosed with dementia and Alzheimer’s. My grandmother had the same but her decline was slow and over quite a number of years, so it’s come as a bit of shock how quickly my mums gone downhill. I would say she might now be in the early late stage. She can’t really communicate anymore - she speaks but it makes no sense and some days seems only able to say yes or no. She’s not really “there” anymore.
My dad is her carer and manages okay but he’s getting on himself. If he suddenly wasn’t there anymore or was unable to carry on as a carer we would be in trouble. I have small children and live in a listed building with lots of stairs, which would be unsuitable for my mum. I don’t feel I could be her carer anyway (for other reasons too), which is really a full time job now.
If we were suddenly in a situation like this, what - if anything - could we do? My mum cannot live independently and needs help with everything including eating and using the toilet.
Thanks in advance for any help.
Just looking for a little advice due to this situation happening to a friend recently and if the same happened in our circumstances I really wouldn’t know what to do.
My parents are both in their late 70s. Nearly 4 years ago my mum was diagnosed with dementia and Alzheimer’s. My grandmother had the same but her decline was slow and over quite a number of years, so it’s come as a bit of shock how quickly my mums gone downhill. I would say she might now be in the early late stage. She can’t really communicate anymore - she speaks but it makes no sense and some days seems only able to say yes or no. She’s not really “there” anymore.
My dad is her carer and manages okay but he’s getting on himself. If he suddenly wasn’t there anymore or was unable to carry on as a carer we would be in trouble. I have small children and live in a listed building with lots of stairs, which would be unsuitable for my mum. I don’t feel I could be her carer anyway (for other reasons too), which is really a full time job now.
If we were suddenly in a situation like this, what - if anything - could we do? My mum cannot live independently and needs help with everything including eating and using the toilet.
Thanks in advance for any help.