My partner was admitted to a care home last Wednesday straight from almost a year in hospital, firstly treated for depression and then they moved onto the dementia side of things.
A Best Interests meeting ok place where it was said that he would be discharged into a care home, which happened last Wednesday.
My partner in some ways is quite a young 74 year old, but with dementia and depression.
Breakfast is served in their individual rooms, the majority of them also decide to have lunch in their room, but my partner is one of the handful that do use the dining room. Tea is served at about 4 o’clock, again served in their room, and supper at about 8 o’clock is once again served in their rooms. I don’t think is healthy, surely they need to socialise as much as they can? Also, their is a programme of activities but half of them don’t happen as the residents don’t go, they just stay in their rooms, either on their bed or in a chair.
Breakfast is cereal, or maybe chopped up egg in toast, lunch is the only hot meal of the day. Tea is 2 triangular sandwiches, a packet of crisps or similar, and a yogurt or ice cream. Supper is the same sort of option as their tea.
Am I expecting too much? Should the staff not be encouraging residents to be more social, staying in their rooms most of the day is very unhealthy in my eyes.
I have had to complain to the manager several times, my partner tells me he is hungry, I take him fruit and chocolate every day.
Today when I checked his folder at 2oclock he was viewed as relaxing on his bed, and at 3 o’clock he was offered a hot drink, the time when I got there was 1.30, I looked at his folder at 1.50, I was so angry when I took his folder to the manager to show her, she got the carer to come and apologise. Most of the other residents do t seem to have any visitors, who is looking out for them??
I have spoken to Social Services about all of this today, we need to get a Needs assessment done so I have stressed I am not happy with what’s happened, we are paying £1360 a week for this service?
I am talking tomorrow to the hospital where he was discharged from last week, I can’t leave him there as he will deteriorate very quickly, the hospital Best Interest Meeting said he could only be discharged to a care home, which is what I did to the best of my ability, several of the care homes refused to even see him as they said his needs would not be possible, mostly because of his age compared to the rest of their residents and his request for some male residents/staff for company and men’s talk, any thoughts please?
A Best Interests meeting ok place where it was said that he would be discharged into a care home, which happened last Wednesday.
My partner in some ways is quite a young 74 year old, but with dementia and depression.
Breakfast is served in their individual rooms, the majority of them also decide to have lunch in their room, but my partner is one of the handful that do use the dining room. Tea is served at about 4 o’clock, again served in their room, and supper at about 8 o’clock is once again served in their rooms. I don’t think is healthy, surely they need to socialise as much as they can? Also, their is a programme of activities but half of them don’t happen as the residents don’t go, they just stay in their rooms, either on their bed or in a chair.
Breakfast is cereal, or maybe chopped up egg in toast, lunch is the only hot meal of the day. Tea is 2 triangular sandwiches, a packet of crisps or similar, and a yogurt or ice cream. Supper is the same sort of option as their tea.
Am I expecting too much? Should the staff not be encouraging residents to be more social, staying in their rooms most of the day is very unhealthy in my eyes.
I have had to complain to the manager several times, my partner tells me he is hungry, I take him fruit and chocolate every day.
Today when I checked his folder at 2oclock he was viewed as relaxing on his bed, and at 3 o’clock he was offered a hot drink, the time when I got there was 1.30, I looked at his folder at 1.50, I was so angry when I took his folder to the manager to show her, she got the carer to come and apologise. Most of the other residents do t seem to have any visitors, who is looking out for them??
I have spoken to Social Services about all of this today, we need to get a Needs assessment done so I have stressed I am not happy with what’s happened, we are paying £1360 a week for this service?
I am talking tomorrow to the hospital where he was discharged from last week, I can’t leave him there as he will deteriorate very quickly, the hospital Best Interest Meeting said he could only be discharged to a care home, which is what I did to the best of my ability, several of the care homes refused to even see him as they said his needs would not be possible, mostly because of his age compared to the rest of their residents and his request for some male residents/staff for company and men’s talk, any thoughts please?