Hi wink62, I just thought I would ask how you are as I see you have a life with your hubby in care.I’m struggling at the moment with what to do now that my husband has gone into care
I looked after him for 5years with his increasing Alzheimer’s and he’s now living in luxurious care home with one to one care which is costing a fortune
I’m left in our home with hardly any money to live on and feel totally broken
I am tearful and emotional most of the time at 64 I could
Realistically have another 20 years of active life but where do I start!
I’m not a widow so can’t do online dating but would like male friends how do I move on ?
Sorry if this sounds as though I’m wallowing in self pity but I feel lost broken and weak after my ordeal with my husband
And I wonder how many others are in the same situation
Thank goodness for TP
Thankyou for replying it was really important to me for people to feel how i was feeling about my hubby and possible care .
I have already had a visit and put the ball rolling ,so to speak but a checklist and financial assessment will be done next Thursday.
Now I'm worrying that I will be left with not so much and not be able to live good ,I was awake all last night because I have no idea what is about to happen .
I suppose each case is different and I will have to wait and see ,not sure how long maybe a few months .xx