I visited MH yesterday and while there was collared by a staff member who said they want to move MH to a different area, one where the residents are even more demented than he is, an entirely different part of the building. Their reason is that there is a new female resident whose room is down the corridor from MH's. He keeps going into her room and taking things. As we all know, most dementia patients do this and this is nothing new for MH. However, the family have complained, clearly not knowing anything about the vagaries of dementia and have asked that MH be moved. I am dead against this and wonder if they can do this without my permission. I feel the new resident should be moved as she has only been there a few weeks, whereas MH has been in his room for 12 months. I feel that to move him would have a negative effect on him. It would also upset me, struggling as I am with our separation and delayed grief. The staff do hourly tours to check on residents and steer MH out of trouble if needs be and as I hope to eventually live in the same town, I will be there frequently to distract him.