Giving money away using POA is very much a grey area and can be a mine-field. If it is something that has been a regular occurrence before dementia then this is usually acceptable (depending on the amount) and presumably these donations were known by the LA when he had his financial assessment and were considered OK. Starting regular donations in order to reduce assets is not OK, though.
Is there something that you could pay for a regular basis that he might enjoy? Someone taking him out somewhere maybe? Or speak to the manager about something in the care home that would benefit him and he could fund. Musician coming into the care home? A piece of equipment?
He had set up a DD to Greenpeace many years ago, so that shouldn't be a problem. And yes that was clear to see at the time of his assessment.
I have already started to look into the funeral plan option as I think this is a very practical idea as well as serving the purpose of disposing of Andy's income in a legitimate way.
I also spoke to his care home who said they will have a think if there is anything that he could benefit from, plus I will set up a regular payment to the Home for Andy's personal use, such as haircuts, chriopodist visits etc.
I was also hoping that I maybe able to use some of it to help support our son who is at Uni. The Student Loans company take into account of all of Andy's income (ie work pension etc) as well as mine when calculating how much maintenance loan he gets, so surely it must be acceptable to use some of Andy's money to support our son as that is what the Student Loans company expect us to do.
As far as I can tell it says that the PEA can be spent however the recipient wishes, but I guess the issue that is that as he lacks mental capacity I have to make those decisions and have to be seen acting in his best interest, even though I know that he would wish to support our son.
The bigger issue is the mobility component of PIP. As I have been told by the council that this is totally disregarded, unless it ends up in his savings, I am hoping I can dispose of this part of his income as if it were the same as his PEA.
He doesn't really need it for any mobility issues as he doesn't leave the care home, doesn't need any assistance in terms of mobility, but even if we didn't claim it, they would count it as notional income as he qualifies for it.
All this now, then it all gets messed up come October next year when the new social care stuff comes in!!!