every time this happens that song goes through my head when driving home!
My mum lives alone and I work fulltime. I visit her every night after work and on weekends. I am her only consistent visitor. She copes well generally through a full life of routine, but is deteriorating.
The thing is - I never know what I am going to find. Normally general things are organizing her tea, shopping lists, money, bins, mail - anything else.
I went on Wednesday night, to find her completely disorientated. She was struggling with basic tasks and on a constant repetitive loop. Extremely anxious, worried and very agitated. It was difficult to get anything through to her, and went I left she looked totally bewildered. Needless to say I worried abut her all night.
Anyway, next visit - the following day, I found a different woman - better than she has been for a long, long time - so one total extreme to the other. She had even prepared her shopping list herself - something she hasn't done for months - and it was correct!! (she does get prompts from her shopping book, but still). We had conversations and even laughed together - wonderful.
Now this is the thing - Wednesday I was starting to think - this is it! she needs more care, but then.....
I find it very bizarre and I know its the nature of this nasty disease, but it is so very odd
My mum lives alone and I work fulltime. I visit her every night after work and on weekends. I am her only consistent visitor. She copes well generally through a full life of routine, but is deteriorating.
The thing is - I never know what I am going to find. Normally general things are organizing her tea, shopping lists, money, bins, mail - anything else.
I went on Wednesday night, to find her completely disorientated. She was struggling with basic tasks and on a constant repetitive loop. Extremely anxious, worried and very agitated. It was difficult to get anything through to her, and went I left she looked totally bewildered. Needless to say I worried abut her all night.
Anyway, next visit - the following day, I found a different woman - better than she has been for a long, long time - so one total extreme to the other. She had even prepared her shopping list herself - something she hasn't done for months - and it was correct!! (she does get prompts from her shopping book, but still). We had conversations and even laughed together - wonderful.
Now this is the thing - Wednesday I was starting to think - this is it! she needs more care, but then.....
I find it very bizarre and I know its the nature of this nasty disease, but it is so very odd