For a while now Eric has been reluctant to shave every day.
I've accepted this. (Personally I'd hate to have to shave every day..)
Recently he's asked me if I think it's necessary for him to wash AND shave in the morning.
My assumption has been that he "can't be bothered"..so I've left it up to him...(Eric is very private about his hygiene..always has been..it's a sensitive subject)
When I mentioned this to the review officer today she took a different aspect.
I'd already mentioned that Eric now is forgetting things like how to make coffee..and then remembering them again.
She suggested it could be the same with washing and shaving. Sometimes he can remember what to do..sometimes he can't.
And because I'm not involved in this activity I don't know.
But it crossed my mind that this may be a way forward for me to become involved..as I will probably need to at some point in the future.
The next time he asks me what he should do re washing and shaving I'm going to take as my cue to ask him..tactfully..if he would like me to help.
Reluctance to wash and shave is becoming a "Talking Point" between us...and I was glad to have another perspective on the issue.
love gigi xx
I've accepted this. (Personally I'd hate to have to shave every day..)
Recently he's asked me if I think it's necessary for him to wash AND shave in the morning.
My assumption has been that he "can't be bothered"..so I've left it up to him...(Eric is very private about his hygiene..always has been..it's a sensitive subject)
When I mentioned this to the review officer today she took a different aspect.
I'd already mentioned that Eric now is forgetting things like how to make coffee..and then remembering them again.
She suggested it could be the same with washing and shaving. Sometimes he can remember what to do..sometimes he can't.
And because I'm not involved in this activity I don't know.
But it crossed my mind that this may be a way forward for me to become involved..as I will probably need to at some point in the future.
The next time he asks me what he should do re washing and shaving I'm going to take as my cue to ask him..tactfully..if he would like me to help.
Reluctance to wash and shave is becoming a "Talking Point" between us...and I was glad to have another perspective on the issue.
love gigi xx