My wife is showing all the symptoms of Vascular Dementia and after taking advice from this site I wrote a letter to our doctors. Unfortunately, to defend my dishonesty, the doctor is not making any quick progress and my wife is resisting visiting the doctors. She has had her first assessment when she was called for her flue jab and at that time there was enough evidence for further investigation, but she has only agreed to go back in early November. The trouble is that she knows there is something wrong, but not what, and is being very difficult to live with. I don't know what her mood is from one moment to another and I am having difficulty coping with some of the new silly rules she is thinking off. All of these are illogical and difficult to live with. Is there anyone having similar problems and more to the point how do they cope?