HI everyone , I visited my mum tonight I manage to see her about 4 times a week because her care home is quite local .
My dad visits her nearly day and like me is finding all of this really hard. He relies on me for emotional support and I try my best to support him .I speak to my dad several times a day on the phone,him telling me what he isnt happy with why he coudnt cope with mum at home all of which I try to listen patiently to telling him he did his best. When i then visit my mum , she says wheres your dad he goes out all these hours and leaves me, I dont like this house bungalow hotel .Then I am told I dont care about her and hmm she supposes I am leaving soon.OH goodness It just seems never ending questions at times .
I love them both dearly and am trying the best I can..but it doesnt stop the guilt at leaving mum and trying my best to cope with it all
My dad visits her nearly day and like me is finding all of this really hard. He relies on me for emotional support and I try my best to support him .I speak to my dad several times a day on the phone,him telling me what he isnt happy with why he coudnt cope with mum at home all of which I try to listen patiently to telling him he did his best. When i then visit my mum , she says wheres your dad he goes out all these hours and leaves me, I dont like this house bungalow hotel .Then I am told I dont care about her and hmm she supposes I am leaving soon.OH goodness It just seems never ending questions at times .
I love them both dearly and am trying the best I can..but it doesnt stop the guilt at leaving mum and trying my best to cope with it all