My wife has been in a dementia specialist care home for two weeks, I visit every day, and we go out in the car roughly every other day to the seaside or local places of interest.
The home is ten miles away and excellent, the care is extremely good with a lot of well trained staff, it is a clean place and serves very good food.
Her room is large with several of her pictures now hanging on the walls, and excellent views over the gardens and farmland.
My wife is bored as there does not seem to be much going on in her day room, although the other residents talk to one another and try to include my wife.
The home is split into three sections, from freedom to move around to pretty secure, and my wife is in the free area.
She really wants to come back home and lives for my visits.
Obviously I want to see her as much as possible while we can still enjoy our outings.
Two questions, am I visiting too often and would it be damaging to bring her home for a few hours?
I think I know the answer to the second question.
The home is ten miles away and excellent, the care is extremely good with a lot of well trained staff, it is a clean place and serves very good food.
Her room is large with several of her pictures now hanging on the walls, and excellent views over the gardens and farmland.
My wife is bored as there does not seem to be much going on in her day room, although the other residents talk to one another and try to include my wife.
The home is split into three sections, from freedom to move around to pretty secure, and my wife is in the free area.
She really wants to come back home and lives for my visits.
Obviously I want to see her as much as possible while we can still enjoy our outings.
Two questions, am I visiting too often and would it be damaging to bring her home for a few hours?
I think I know the answer to the second question.