My Mum was diagnosed with vascular dementia just into lockdown, so every problem is already magnified. On 1st August, we called 111 as Mum was clearly unwell . An ambulance was sent , and as my husband and I had suspected Mum had suffered a stroke . August has gone and Mum is still in hospital, care is good , though sometimes the communication is not the best between some of the staff . Mum can hardly speak , has not been able to stand yet , is eating soft food and slightly thickened water etc , has a catheter in . I have been told that medically she is almost ok now . What is now needed is some inpatient rehab so that physio, speech and occupational therapists can do some work . The physios are quite keen , one doctor is too . Today a different doctor mentioned this to Mum , she said that she wants to come home and doesn’t want rehab . He told her that it is up to her , no one will make her . What do I do ? Don’t misunderstand me , I want her home . I do realise that no amount of therapy will turn the clock back . I am terrified of her coming home and not being able to meet her needs .