Hi everyone. Although registered with Talking Point just after my granddads diagnosis of vascular dementia almost 2 years ago, today is the first time I've actually posted on the forum.
I've lived with my granddad for about 6 months now ever since he came out of hospital, and more recently, he seems to be becoming increasingly unable to recognise the reason for doing things. Recognising the benefit of doing things is even more of a challenge.
The most recent example of this was yesterday when I was trying to speak to my granddad about his night time medication. I say 'trying' as my granddad is very hard of hearing and so it has been a challenge to communicate easily even before his diagnosis! I had asked granddad to wear his hearing aids to try to make it a little bit easier but as he finds them uncomfortable, he refused and went on to reference my request as something that would satisfy me rather than being for him. Despite trying to explain that it would hopefully help us have a conversation, granddad would not accept it.
Other regular example is trying to reason with granddad about going to bed (granddad seems determined to stay up no matter how tired he is or how much of the evening he has been spent asleep in the chair).
I'd be really interested in hearing about people's experience to trying to reason with someone with dementia...and any tips you might have!
I've lived with my granddad for about 6 months now ever since he came out of hospital, and more recently, he seems to be becoming increasingly unable to recognise the reason for doing things. Recognising the benefit of doing things is even more of a challenge.
The most recent example of this was yesterday when I was trying to speak to my granddad about his night time medication. I say 'trying' as my granddad is very hard of hearing and so it has been a challenge to communicate easily even before his diagnosis! I had asked granddad to wear his hearing aids to try to make it a little bit easier but as he finds them uncomfortable, he refused and went on to reference my request as something that would satisfy me rather than being for him. Despite trying to explain that it would hopefully help us have a conversation, granddad would not accept it.
Other regular example is trying to reason with granddad about going to bed (granddad seems determined to stay up no matter how tired he is or how much of the evening he has been spent asleep in the chair).
I'd be really interested in hearing about people's experience to trying to reason with someone with dementia...and any tips you might have!