Hi all
Mum ,76 with Alzheimer's does very.little sits around at home(my.house) for the majority.of.the day, just staring, yawning, making conversation with the.dog and sitting.
Yesterday she had a meeting at.our local.support hub to attempt her to get out and try new things in a safe and caring setting.
Mum told the lady that she is very busy and takes her self on the bus to the seaside for a lovely walk then gets the bus back.
Also that she cooks all the time and has a very busy social life.
In the evening I asked about some of the activities offered,
Knit and natter- no I've done that before.
Chairobics- I remember doing that with the lady over the road, and the man said if it gets to hard then you can sit down, that does nothing for me.
I tried to suggest that this is a different environment and so may be much more fun.
Anyway I waffle on. My issue is everything she said is a blatant lie, she has never lied to this extent straight to my face before.
I understand why she is doing it my problem is that I can't process the fact that she lies and won't accept anything new.
I don't know if I am right but I have decided not to help out at all from now on. If she's so capable.of cooking proper food every night and organising her own shopping etc then she bloody well can and I'll.stop.spending the majority of my free time cooking, clearing, cleaning and being her social life.
I'm so fed up I'm sitting here really trying not.to cry but maybe I should and get it out of my system.
😒😒😒
Mum ,76 with Alzheimer's does very.little sits around at home(my.house) for the majority.of.the day, just staring, yawning, making conversation with the.dog and sitting.
Yesterday she had a meeting at.our local.support hub to attempt her to get out and try new things in a safe and caring setting.
Mum told the lady that she is very busy and takes her self on the bus to the seaside for a lovely walk then gets the bus back.
Also that she cooks all the time and has a very busy social life.
In the evening I asked about some of the activities offered,
Knit and natter- no I've done that before.
Chairobics- I remember doing that with the lady over the road, and the man said if it gets to hard then you can sit down, that does nothing for me.
I tried to suggest that this is a different environment and so may be much more fun.
Anyway I waffle on. My issue is everything she said is a blatant lie, she has never lied to this extent straight to my face before.
I understand why she is doing it my problem is that I can't process the fact that she lies and won't accept anything new.
I don't know if I am right but I have decided not to help out at all from now on. If she's so capable.of cooking proper food every night and organising her own shopping etc then she bloody well can and I'll.stop.spending the majority of my free time cooking, clearing, cleaning and being her social life.
I'm so fed up I'm sitting here really trying not.to cry but maybe I should and get it out of my system.
😒😒😒