Hi there.
My husband has dementia and is still able to get around but has recently been getting the wrong bus home & tends to stay on it until it stops. He knows the bus number he wants but is using the stop next to the one he needs. He would normally get a tram home but they’ve been doing track work so it’s been out of action where he would pick it up from.
I still have to work, being younger than my hubby & the police have had to collect him a few times as although I’ve AirTags in his coat & on his keys, the tags don’t update in real time, so I’m unable to get him myself. Friday just gone, the police said he needs someone with him every time he goes out but there’s only me & him & the private carer cancelled us due to him not being home when she arrives & so social services I guess would be the same as we have to pay but we can’t afford 24/7 care.
He basically goes out whenever he wants & I don’t know what to do now. Any help would be appreciated.
My husband has dementia and is still able to get around but has recently been getting the wrong bus home & tends to stay on it until it stops. He knows the bus number he wants but is using the stop next to the one he needs. He would normally get a tram home but they’ve been doing track work so it’s been out of action where he would pick it up from.
I still have to work, being younger than my hubby & the police have had to collect him a few times as although I’ve AirTags in his coat & on his keys, the tags don’t update in real time, so I’m unable to get him myself. Friday just gone, the police said he needs someone with him every time he goes out but there’s only me & him & the private carer cancelled us due to him not being home when she arrives & so social services I guess would be the same as we have to pay but we can’t afford 24/7 care.
He basically goes out whenever he wants & I don’t know what to do now. Any help would be appreciated.