It’s a constant pressure sadly, just had a phone call tonight from Mum. Apparently she’s got another UTI & is on antibiotics, nurse came out yesterday. I could hear the TV on loudly in the background- sounded like who wants to be a millionaire- mum quickly came off the phone as the theme tune came back on! Obviously rang me bored in the ad break!Crikey. That's all very tough. Good for you standing your ground. The psychological blackmail, conscious or otherwise, is another very hard thing to cope with, it seems to me.