Hi everyone.
I just want to introduce myself. I'm Ida, a new member. I didn't realize that this Alzheimer support group in UK. I'm in the US, but I think my question is universal. My husband is currently at Geropsychiatry unit, due to his violent behavior. I recently visited him, and noticed that he is getting calmer, which is great, he is talking more, which is also great, he didn't seem to have urinary and fecal incontinence as much. But what surprised me was that he seemed more confused about where the bathroom was. He stood at the corner of geropsych living room and went pee. Then He pulled down his pull up and had bowel movement on the chair. It was extremely difficult for me to see. Just a month ago he was able to feed himself, now, it seemed to me he still has physical ability to do so, but they need to spoon feed him, because they said that he would rather walk around than feeding himself. The psychiatrist said that my husband is mentally nearing the end of his moderate stage, and slowly will enter the advance stage. I know Alzheimer's stage is vary for each person, but did you see this kind of confusion before your loved one entering their final stage? I can't, may be also refuse to belief, that he will enter final stage mentally, this fast.
I just want to introduce myself. I'm Ida, a new member. I didn't realize that this Alzheimer support group in UK. I'm in the US, but I think my question is universal. My husband is currently at Geropsychiatry unit, due to his violent behavior. I recently visited him, and noticed that he is getting calmer, which is great, he is talking more, which is also great, he didn't seem to have urinary and fecal incontinence as much. But what surprised me was that he seemed more confused about where the bathroom was. He stood at the corner of geropsych living room and went pee. Then He pulled down his pull up and had bowel movement on the chair. It was extremely difficult for me to see. Just a month ago he was able to feed himself, now, it seemed to me he still has physical ability to do so, but they need to spoon feed him, because they said that he would rather walk around than feeding himself. The psychiatrist said that my husband is mentally nearing the end of his moderate stage, and slowly will enter the advance stage. I know Alzheimer's stage is vary for each person, but did you see this kind of confusion before your loved one entering their final stage? I can't, may be also refuse to belief, that he will enter final stage mentally, this fast.