Hi my mum is 71 and was diagnosed about 6 years ago, she lives with my dad who is her carer. We both need a little advice as to what to do. She is able to go to the toilet on her own but doesn't use toilet paper for either, while having a wee this is ok but not for the other. We don't know when she goes for a poo so aren't able to intervene. She does on many occasions use the towels to wipe herself- don't know why maybe its more visble, is there any help and advice anyone can offer. My mum has no idea who anyone is or what anything is she has very little understanding of anything but is still quite fit and mobile. My dad can't keep tabs on her all the time as she wanders round a lot and talks to people who aren't there and then tells my dad shes not doing something as this imaginary person has said she doesn't have to. I rambling now sorry - we have lost the person who was my mum but need to make this different person happy and content if thats makes sense.