Yes, I had a super Christmas day with my dear Lionel. Getting there was not that easy...................Lionel, the dear man that he is insisted on buying pressies for everyone at the care home "I need to buy presents for all my girls". He has forgotten myself, family and friends in this equasionSP . Myself, the love of his life, is only of merit when she is with him......... But , this is his world.!!!! Were it something else, this scenario would not arise So we enter yet another phase............who knows what tomorrow brings. As someone, much wiser than me, said on this forum " they cannot comprend our world, we have to enter theirs" I wish you all a peaceful NEW YEAR. Enjoy. Love.