Firstly, good luck with your research.
My dad is in care and like others here I still primarly think of him as my dad and myself as his son.
However, there are certainly things that I do for dad that I consider as part of my carer role. Particularly day-to-day stuff that we did when dad was at home with mum. Taking your father to the toilet and helping clear up after, changes a lot of father/son relationship dynamics, I can't pretend any differently.
Mum struggled with the role of carer vs wife, her rock became a man who needed looking after every moment of every day. And the hardest thing for mum was losing her soul mate, the one person you talk to about everything, all you problems, all you worries and all the good things that happened in you day, the person that gives you a hug everyday. She just had to get on with it, but an emotional struggle for her.
Kind Regards
Craig
My dad is in care and like others here I still primarly think of him as my dad and myself as his son.
However, there are certainly things that I do for dad that I consider as part of my carer role. Particularly day-to-day stuff that we did when dad was at home with mum. Taking your father to the toilet and helping clear up after, changes a lot of father/son relationship dynamics, I can't pretend any differently.
Mum struggled with the role of carer vs wife, her rock became a man who needed looking after every moment of every day. And the hardest thing for mum was losing her soul mate, the one person you talk to about everything, all you problems, all you worries and all the good things that happened in you day, the person that gives you a hug everyday. She just had to get on with it, but an emotional struggle for her.
For me it is an outlet that I do not get anywhere else. After a while people in my daily life just didn't want to hear about the 'problems' with dad; here people like to talk and like to help and (metaphorically) look you in the eye when you start talking about your dad.What is the role of Talking Point in your everyday lives?
Kind Regards
Craig
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