This may help someone.

JC51

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My wife has been in a care home now for just over two years. She has Alzheimer’s and Lewy body. She’s bed bound and in the nursing care part of the home. I took care of her on my own for three and a half years, until I was starting to struggle. She was a religous person, regular church goer. This morning I opened a drawer and at the back was her Bible, which she’d had all her life. Inside the cover I found this.
Footprints in the Sand.
one night a man had a dream.He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the LORD.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonging to him, the other to the LORD.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times of his life.
This really bothered him and he questioned the LORD about it. “LORD, you said that once I decided to follow you, you’d walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don’t understand why when I needed you most you would leave me.
The LORD replied, “My precious, precious child, I love you and I would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.

I hope reading this will be of help to those struggling with caring for a loved one with this horrible terminal disease.
 

DeeCee7

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That was very thoughtful and kind of you @JC51 to take the trouble to share this. I hope you have your faith to carry you, as it does many others. Comfort can be found in many places, sometimes unexpectedly, like the kindness of strangers, the soothing of the natural world, or in the support of friends and family.
 

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