During my phone call with 'Our' SW this morning, she actually told me that I was mistaken! She told me that my husband would be able to 'sort of' claim the top up's back from his mother... sort of!!! I then pointed out that according to the Notts CC's own guidelines, this is not correct. I told her the page number I was reading from.... it went very quiet her end of the phone!
Good then
Phone up ask to talk to the manger of social service as you want to make a compliant about the way this Social worker is treating you .
Manger of Social services will know more then this SW .
The way the SW has Just told your husband to find care home, does not sound right .