Good evening, I have not posted for a long time, but mum has deteriorated so much in the last few weeks we are no longer sure she can live alone. She no longer feeds herself, fruit and biscuits seem the norm, however, we give her dinner more often than through the week, her hallucinations have reached the point that the house load of people that always seem to be present do not go away anymore when we tell mum they aren't there, she has stated getting angry about it, yelling us to shut up and so on. Her hallucinations were upsetting her and so the doctor at the memory clinic put her on mild tranquillisers. They seem to ave taken the edge off. She in a little incontinent so ave bought her pants to wear and she seems ok most of the time. I fear that me and my sister can no longer cope alone and maybe need to look for a home, she also wanders some, but she lives on a park home site and tends to stay along her road, but just lately tries o get in next door instead of her place. We are worried, probably selfishly, about mums savings, she has told us many times she does not want the money my dad worked so hard or "wasted" on care. She has substantial savings, is there anyway we can squirrel some away as she wants o leave it to the grand kids, and a little for us! Sorry to have rambled on, there is so much more going on, but I can't seem to get t all down, feeling so tired this week as been over to mum everyday this week cos she won't answer the phone when we call her o take her meds! Sorry again, but any comments, gratefully received x