Well, due to circumstances that have happened recently I've actually made some progress! Mum had a fall a couple of days ago and was taken to A & E for stitches and they kept her in overnight because of the bang on her head. The OT at the hospital rang me yesterday morning so say she was concerned at sending Mum home to be on her own, and she asked if I had any particular concerns so I told her everything (I bet she wished she hadn't asked!). Anyway Mum is now staying in hospital until a Reablement package is put into place for her, this will continue for six weeks following discharge from hospital and the OT is arranging for Age UK to go in and help Mum with cooking, cleaning etc. Once the six weeks is up they will then re-assess her to decide what her needs are. I'm so relieved because at least she's on the Social Services radar now, and I can't see them withdrawing help once they have put it in place because they will now see how bad she is.
I'm not really bothering about the memory clinic now because from what people have said on this thread, it doesn't really make any difference in the longrun, it just confirms what the family already know, and ticks a box for the NHS.
I'm not really bothering about the memory clinic now because from what people have said on this thread, it doesn't really make any difference in the longrun, it just confirms what the family already know, and ticks a box for the NHS.