I am new here, my mum has alzheimers and has been in a care home for 3 months. She's coping OK but is increasingly confused. She just about recognises me most of the time. My first grandchild, mum's first great grandchild is to be baptised in a few weeks. This will be a big affair,lots of people attending, marquee and hogroast. My son would love his grandma to attend, but I am concerned that mum might find the occasion overwhelming Does anyone have any advice? . .