My OH has Vascular Dementia and he has totally lost his "get round to it". If I ask him to do something he might say "yes", but carries on sitting in his chair. It is the willingness of the old self saying, "Yes", but the new self won't act. I ask him when he will do it and the answer might be "later..... after lunch", or whenever he chooses. He leaves the garage light on and turns it off in the kitchen instead of in the garage at source. I have to check on him, but cannot go in the garage myself because of my disability. It is a possible fire risk as the light melted an electric extention coil last year, so it is urgent that he does it.
He is also very willful and misses the point, cannot follow instructions properly. I have to check up on everything. I am exhausted and unhappy. This is only the beginning of this dreadful diagnosis. I am not sure I have the physical or mental strength to put up with this.
Sorry, but I needed to rant.
He is also very willful and misses the point, cannot follow instructions properly. I have to check up on everything. I am exhausted and unhappy. This is only the beginning of this dreadful diagnosis. I am not sure I have the physical or mental strength to put up with this.
Sorry, but I needed to rant.