Hi everyone, never posted on here before but I'm hoping for some advice.
My grandad Has had dementia for 3 years now, he's deteriorating quickly now, I'm the only person who sees him, cares for him and takes him anywhere.
Previous family members stole alot of money of him so he always thinks somebody is out to steal his money and that's the reason why he refused carers and social services to help him. .
When I was little I loved stayed over, He was always house proud but now it's so dirty, he doesn't even store food properly.
I do my best to clean for him and help, but I have 3 children at home all under the age of 6 and I work aswell.
I know 100% he has no idea who I am, and he can't remember anything from the day before,on Christmas morning he didn't even know it was Christmas! He gets so upset all the time because he doesn't know where his family are.
I just don't know what to do
My grandad Has had dementia for 3 years now, he's deteriorating quickly now, I'm the only person who sees him, cares for him and takes him anywhere.
Previous family members stole alot of money of him so he always thinks somebody is out to steal his money and that's the reason why he refused carers and social services to help him. .
When I was little I loved stayed over, He was always house proud but now it's so dirty, he doesn't even store food properly.
I do my best to clean for him and help, but I have 3 children at home all under the age of 6 and I work aswell.
I know 100% he has no idea who I am, and he can't remember anything from the day before,on Christmas morning he didn't even know it was Christmas! He gets so upset all the time because he doesn't know where his family are.
I just don't know what to do