My mum has been in a home for about two months now. I live very close and have supported her a lot. I helped care for her with other people at home but it all got too much. She is very fit and mobile and loves to be kept busy as well as exercising. She is probably quit unusual which is why I feel alone in my frustration at why the care home cannot provide more stimulation. I used to do so much with her and there is a wealth of info on the internet. The home does not have internet so they can't access singing etc I (or another carer) go in regularly to take her out walking and as I am a musician I also play to them. She would be so bored if I left her there. Am I expecting too much?