Hello everyone. My wife aged 61 has been diagnosed with vascular dementia. We're told its is in an early stage. I wanted to introduce this as starting a new adventure in our lives but I don't know if that's appropriate. I'm trying to educate myself about what this means for us and particularly me as I've been told I'm now a carer. We have just had a new alzheimers facility opened and had a recent visit from them to our home where they pointed out TP to me so here I am. I've never been on a forum before and although I'm very computer literate my Alz journey has started with me spending 90mins or so trying to find the New Post button to introduce myself. I hope this appears in the correct place.
From what I've read on the pages in TP during my 90mins of searching I think you are going to be good for us. My own immediate issue, softer word than problem, is how to communicate with my wife . She is constantly complaining about what I say and how I say it. I've tried various tones of voice and rewording what I say but as yet haven't found the solution. I'm learning, slowly mind you, not to bite back when she asks for the same information 3 times in 5 minutes but sometimes I fail and growl at her which is obviously not a great help. I know this is the start of a download slope which I hope to be a shallow one so deterioration is not rapid but I guess we don't have a lot of control over this. So TP I hope to learn from your experiences and its nice to have someone out there to share with. Thanks for being there one and all
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From what I've read on the pages in TP during my 90mins of searching I think you are going to be good for us. My own immediate issue, softer word than problem, is how to communicate with my wife . She is constantly complaining about what I say and how I say it. I've tried various tones of voice and rewording what I say but as yet haven't found the solution. I'm learning, slowly mind you, not to bite back when she asks for the same information 3 times in 5 minutes but sometimes I fail and growl at her which is obviously not a great help. I know this is the start of a download slope which I hope to be a shallow one so deterioration is not rapid but I guess we don't have a lot of control over this. So TP I hope to learn from your experiences and its nice to have someone out there to share with. Thanks for being there one and all
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