It’s a shame as she’s settled in well and gets on well with a group of ladies. It’s been very good for her capacity and most of the staff are great. This is the only incident that I know of involving my mum. The care worker said they desperately need someone at all times in the lounge and the subject has been brought up but not acted upon. The home has always had the best reputation in the town and we’ve known so many people who have gone there or volunteer there but the management leaves a lot to be desired
I'm so sorry someone tried to harm your Mum. OMG. I give you credit for handling it so well.
Is your Mum better?
My Ma has "settled" according to them and seems well fed (too much - still working on this) and has made some friends.
For me it's the communication aspect - or lack thereof from the care home as a whole. I think it's also the night time staff that have the tough shifts which are agency too.
And the manager is a ... I don't think I'm allowed to write what she is.
The staff for the most part are great though. I think all the care homes are severely understaffed. The care homes make a fortune and the staff do not.
I noticed a bruise on Ma's face which no-one knew anything about. Ma said she may have fallen and doesn't remember. Then the day time staff said, no - no reports and I find that the night time staff reported the bruise as well as another on her file.
I'm still at the "what have I done" point now and again and when this kind of thing comes up, I start looking for live-in care, which I can't afford and feel hopeless and rinse, repeat.
So it's a matter of the pros and cons. I go back to the list. And even when she was at home I had a terrible time finding staff.
Would you report this also to social services?