There will be a few of your out there with lots of experience of being a carer and to be honest will be further down the dementia line than we are. I have made three other posts today. We have three separate problems currently with mum and rather than make one long post I thought it would be easier to run each problem past you all. However, it does strike me that all this could be linked. When you are a carer perhaps you stop noticing the general decline in your loved one because you are so used to trying to solve the individual problems. So that is my question to you is - what made you realise there had been a general decline in your loved one? Are there particular markers we should look for. My reason for asking this question is that I do not suddenly want to find ourselves at a crisis point and say where did that come from.