Our mother has been diagnosed with vascular dementia and alzheimers she is also registered blind with amd. We have seen the memory clinic doctors and ot and have done everything they suggest to keep Mum at home as long as possible. She has carers 3 times a day. BUT Mum is very cross with us - spoiling for a fight. She says it is us that have got the memory clinic involved, it is us that say there is something wrong, no one else has noticed any problems. (In fact the doctors got involved after she had a fall when wandering) Our visits and phone calls are very unpleasent - my sister and I are biting our tongues and not rising to the bait, but this just seems to be making her worse! We are finding this very hard to handle, we know she is hitting out at those she knows will keep on taking it, those she knows love her. But we'd welcome some ideas on how to cope and has any one dealt with this and how long will this phase last? (We keep telling ourselves it is just a phase!)
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