For those of you who are spiritual, I'm just wondering if any of you have thoughts which lend a spiritual perspective to going through dementia. Are there any spiritual lessons to be gained through the journey of either the care giver or the victim?
Or do you have any spiritual perspectives related to any aspect of dementia which helps give you strength, or to make sense of the whole cruel dementia experience?
As a spiritual person, I try to look for the spiritual meaning, or the spiritual lessons or purpose behind everything in life, but I'm having a very hard time doing that in this situation (watching my wonderful, amazing mother whom I adore being destroyed by dementia, and assuming the role of her full time caregiver). This disease is so horrendously cruel. My mother was a kind, generous, selfless, gentle, positive, GOOD person who worked so hard and made so many sacrifices all her life, without ever giving it a second thought, nor a word of complaint, and made it all look so effortless, always with a big smile and happy disposition. SO admirable all my life! She inspired all of the very best of what there is in me. How could this happen to HER?! She does not DESERVE this! These are the questions I am tormented by every day, and at times it comes close to testing my faith. I so desperately want to be able to see and understand some deeper spiritual meaning in all this, so at least I can try to come to peace with it. But I just havent been able to find the spiritual perspectives I am seeking. If anyone has anything to offer, please share your thoughts, insights or perspectives.
Or do you have any spiritual perspectives related to any aspect of dementia which helps give you strength, or to make sense of the whole cruel dementia experience?
As a spiritual person, I try to look for the spiritual meaning, or the spiritual lessons or purpose behind everything in life, but I'm having a very hard time doing that in this situation (watching my wonderful, amazing mother whom I adore being destroyed by dementia, and assuming the role of her full time caregiver). This disease is so horrendously cruel. My mother was a kind, generous, selfless, gentle, positive, GOOD person who worked so hard and made so many sacrifices all her life, without ever giving it a second thought, nor a word of complaint, and made it all look so effortless, always with a big smile and happy disposition. SO admirable all my life! She inspired all of the very best of what there is in me. How could this happen to HER?! She does not DESERVE this! These are the questions I am tormented by every day, and at times it comes close to testing my faith. I so desperately want to be able to see and understand some deeper spiritual meaning in all this, so at least I can try to come to peace with it. But I just havent been able to find the spiritual perspectives I am seeking. If anyone has anything to offer, please share your thoughts, insights or perspectives.