Hi all, first post on these forums, hopefully in the correct place, was after some advice, my mother who is 70 has some form of dementia/alzheimers, it has not been diagnosed or even looked at, but its clear as day, any dr would probably diagnose just by trying to talk to her, the problem is both my parents are very stubborn about getting help, my dad is 80 and is very fit for his age, so has basically become her carer and there is a lot of head in the sand going on, i have mentioned about taking her to drs but he says she wont go etc, i feel helpless and guilty as im also sort of an out of sight out of mind etc as i just cant cope with these type of illnesses and i feel scared to see how much she has declined, also im the only child which doesnt help as have no real support from siblings etc, so just wondering how to manage this, dad can look after her but hes finding it very difficult at times and i feel so bad for him, but i know 100% they wont be going to drs anytime soon and i cant just storm round there and drag them lol, also i think dad doesnt really understand the disease so he gets frustrated with her and comes to blows which you just cant do with alzheimers suffers, im on edge a lot waiting for the next big problem, its a nightmare, any advice from someone who has similar experiences would be welcome.