I'm going to meet my relative and a social worker tomorrow to discuss a social care assessment. Well, they arranged a time with my relative via the sensory needs person as my relative has dual sensory loss. It's in the morning, not good for me as I have health issues myself and disturbed nights sometimes. But I didn't get a say in the timing!
It also seems that a full assessment is unlikely as my relative has more in savings than the threshold for which people must pay for their own care.
But I think that they would be more accepting of change if a professional suggested it rather than me or their son. We've tried before to suggest a cleaner, pill organiser etc but these were all declined. My relative seems to think that the only option is going into a care home away from friends at the sheltered accommodation where they live.
Their son is autistic and I'm possibly autistic, adding to the challenges of having these delicate conversations with loved ones and convincing social services that we need help with it all.
Please wish me luck for tomorrow! I'd usually be at a carers lunch but I'm having to forgo that too for this appointment.
It also seems that a full assessment is unlikely as my relative has more in savings than the threshold for which people must pay for their own care.
But I think that they would be more accepting of change if a professional suggested it rather than me or their son. We've tried before to suggest a cleaner, pill organiser etc but these were all declined. My relative seems to think that the only option is going into a care home away from friends at the sheltered accommodation where they live.
Their son is autistic and I'm possibly autistic, adding to the challenges of having these delicate conversations with loved ones and convincing social services that we need help with it all.
Please wish me luck for tomorrow! I'd usually be at a carers lunch but I'm having to forgo that too for this appointment.