My hubby went into hospital at the start of the year with sepsis as a result of a urine infection. He was medically fit within four weeks but as the consensus was he needed a care home numerous assessments had to be made . Things moved SO slowly that by the time things were nearly sorted this devastating virus struck, trapping hubby in hospital. He was aggressive and combatative when he needed attention but settled the rest of the time. The staff knew him and how to handle him. On Monday he had to be moved to another hospital to free up his acute bed. Since then he has deteriorated rapidly, not eating ,drinking and refusing medication.Of course he is now in a new situation, utterly confused and without the comfort of familiar staff.I haven’t been able to visit at all and can’t even visualise where he is.now as I don’t know the new hospital at all .He used to co-operate when I was with him as I visited all day. I just want to comfort him and hold his hand. I’m on my own and spend half my time in tears. I’m so scared he’ll fade away before I can see him again.It’s proving harder and harder to contact the ward and the right person to give me any information as understandably they are so busy.I feel so helpless.