My mum is asleep most of the time now. Today she was in bed sleeping when i arrived at the care home at around 11am. They woke her up and used hoist to put her in a chair, this woke her up but she went straight back to sleep once in her chair. They were quite forceful in trying to get her to eat she was very sleepy if not actually sleeping throughout this. She did eat most of a yoghurt but virtually none of the pureed dinner. Is this similar to other peoples experiences. Is it right to push someone to eat when they do not seem to want to? My mum has a pressure sore on her heel which is infected they have done a swab and are now saying that she is on the wrong antibiotics. Maybe she will improve when they give her the correct ones. They also told me that she has a second sore on her back. I don't know what is best for her. I don't want too appear callous but she may have had enough. I don't want too let her down. Wish there was a manual to follow. Just sit by her chair or bed and stroke her hair and talk to her.