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Selling Mums house

Discussion in 'Legal and financial issues' started by Ellewin, Mar 15, 2018.

  1. Ellewin

    Ellewin New member

    Feb 28, 2018
    1
    Can my sister in law sell my mum's house and telling him ever, she has mental capacity and my sister in law is telling everyone that my mum is a "vegetable" I am shocked by this lie and disgustingly disrespectful description of my mum in law. This is killing my partner his Mum. Please help us stop her
     
  2. jenniferpa

    jenniferpa Volunteer Moderator

    Jun 27, 2006
    39,429
    Hello and welcome to talking point.

    I have a number of questions (sorry). Does your sil have a financial lpa? Where is your mil living? Does your mil have a diagnosis of dementia?
     
  3. nicoise

    nicoise Registered User

    Jun 29, 2010
    1,807
    Does your SIL hold Attorneyship or Deputyship for your MIL?

    It would be helpful to know as otherwise we can’t give you appropriate replies.

    Sorry, I’ve cross posted with Jenniferpa!
     
  4. TheFootyPoet

    TheFootyPoet Registered User

    Nov 10, 2015
    24
    South of England
    Need more detail on the exact situation? Your post is a little confusing.

    At the end of the day, it's down to mental capacity, and if this has not been formally ascertained, it needs to be.
     
  5. jenniferpa

    jenniferpa Volunteer Moderator

    Jun 27, 2006
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    #5 jenniferpa, Mar 16, 2018
    Last edited: Mar 16, 2018
    Can I just point out that a formal assessment of capacity may not be needed unless the lpa (if there is one) makes it a requirement.

    The reality is, assuming that there isn't such a requirement, if (for example) a person is in a care home because they aren't safe in their own house and has no understanding that 1) they need to be there and 2) the house needs to be sold to pay the bills, it's entirely likely that no formal assessment of capacity will be required.

    Edit: in fact a registered lpa is often used as a general poa for people who have assets in the UK but who reside overseas where there is no hint of dementia or lack of capacity. I doubt that's what is going on here, but it's important to note that without restrictions written into it, a registered lpa for finances may quite possibly be used when the donor still has capacity. The remedy if the donor has capacity and doesn't care for the attorneys actions is to revoke the lpa.
     
  6. Malalie

    Malalie Registered User

    Sep 1, 2016
    307
    Female
    Helo Ellewin and welcome to the forum. Sorry that you have had to find us here.

    The term "vegetable" is really not nice, and you obviously have some issues with your husband's sister. As said in previous posts, it would be helpful if you could say if MIL has a Power of Attorney set up at all? If it is your MIL's daughter who has been looking after her Mum it may have come to the stage where the family home has to be sold in order to pay for her care - it happens all the time and it's very sad.....

    If you could give us some more information.....?
     

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