My dad has Alzheimer’s and has been affected for many years actually but after mum died in April last he rapidly deteriorated and luckily got a quick diagnosis of advanced Alzheimer’s. He’s 82 next month. He is taking 10mg of donezepil and i would describe him as settled. I don’t live near him sadly but I spend one weekend a month visiting him for a few days. He’s always been such a pragmatic, accepting, positive and humble man who is my inspiration and idol. What I’m really struggling with is how to respond when he tells me that he’s, in his words ‘all upside down’. He knows he’s not the man he was and makes repeated reference to being all jumbled up and not knowing what’s going on. He’ll start to get agitated saying I need to sort myself out and get with it again. I try to reassure him that I think he’s doing great, focus on things he does remember but do you have any tips on how I can respond to his increasing worry and stress about loosing himself? It’s breaking my heart. Thank you in advance x