Hi all
I've moved across the country to support my dad, who is clearly starting his journey into dementia (though other causes for his cognitive decline haven't been ruled out). After getting him to a GP in August, we secured a referral to a Memory Clinic with an appointment in November. I was all set to take him that morning when a call came through that it had to be cancelled due to illness of the nurse. Of course, the call came through to Dad! So there was a lot of back and forth and phone calls to figure out that it actually was cancelled, since Dad wasn't making too much sense and we couldn't read his hand writing!
Given his behavioural issues - getting a little more confused, bored, more emotional - we'd really like to get a diagnosis so we can have some more professional support. We haven't had another appointment letter come through yet and I'm guessing it might be another couple of months if the previous timings hold; but it could be longer given that we're heading into winter now.
I'd like to consider getting a private consultation. Does anyone on the forum have experience of this? I'm not that experienced with mixing public/private healthcare - will our GP and local NHS move forward with (preusmably) tests/care/follow ups on the basis of a private diagnosis? Do I need to make sure the diagnosis is from a consultant with a particular specialism? I think we can afford the appointment - which I'm guessing will be a few hundred pounds - but I assume a key step will be a physical scan, which the NHS should be able to do (and presumably will be astronomically expensive if it's an MRI!).
I'm basically aiming to speed up the process so we can get access to support. Dad has always been the carer for Mum and she's not coping well. They live in an area where public transport isn't great so he's always driven, so she's anxious about having the car 'taken away' and so on. Anyway, it's complicated, and these things always are! Last night I was explaining to Dad - the same man who bought me my first computer in the late 1980s, and who worked in engineering - what the coloured circles at the top left of the window meant on his Mac. He was making notes but he won't be able to understand them.
With best wishes
Ian
I've moved across the country to support my dad, who is clearly starting his journey into dementia (though other causes for his cognitive decline haven't been ruled out). After getting him to a GP in August, we secured a referral to a Memory Clinic with an appointment in November. I was all set to take him that morning when a call came through that it had to be cancelled due to illness of the nurse. Of course, the call came through to Dad! So there was a lot of back and forth and phone calls to figure out that it actually was cancelled, since Dad wasn't making too much sense and we couldn't read his hand writing!
Given his behavioural issues - getting a little more confused, bored, more emotional - we'd really like to get a diagnosis so we can have some more professional support. We haven't had another appointment letter come through yet and I'm guessing it might be another couple of months if the previous timings hold; but it could be longer given that we're heading into winter now.
I'd like to consider getting a private consultation. Does anyone on the forum have experience of this? I'm not that experienced with mixing public/private healthcare - will our GP and local NHS move forward with (preusmably) tests/care/follow ups on the basis of a private diagnosis? Do I need to make sure the diagnosis is from a consultant with a particular specialism? I think we can afford the appointment - which I'm guessing will be a few hundred pounds - but I assume a key step will be a physical scan, which the NHS should be able to do (and presumably will be astronomically expensive if it's an MRI!).
I'm basically aiming to speed up the process so we can get access to support. Dad has always been the carer for Mum and she's not coping well. They live in an area where public transport isn't great so he's always driven, so she's anxious about having the car 'taken away' and so on. Anyway, it's complicated, and these things always are! Last night I was explaining to Dad - the same man who bought me my first computer in the late 1980s, and who worked in engineering - what the coloured circles at the top left of the window meant on his Mac. He was making notes but he won't be able to understand them.
With best wishes
Ian